| A Virtual Tribute to
Kenneth N. Patrette 
November 19, 1930 - September 1, 2000

Ken with the The Infant of Prague or his "Baby" as he called it, on Christmas
Eve of 1997.
Ken Patrette was my boss at the Old Cathedral for
four years and a friend of mine during that time frame as well. I was very fortunate to
get to know this "complex" man as Monsignor Sandhienrich put it, and enjoyed his
company.
Ken taught me a lot about the "Real World" and the ways of how it
worked. He showed how I fit in by comparison and really knew how to read people and
understood what they were about. He was a real people person, and I must say, I learned a
lot from his people ways and carry them with me today. He was an interesting fella with
his peculiar ways and habits, and that's what made him real as a human being, being who he
was.
Perhaps one my favorite stories that Ken recited to me and the
OCPL workers was his story of how the teacher in high school wanted the students to put
down on paper who they would be if they could be anyone else. Ken repeatedly argued with
the teacher as he put himself down on the paper every time. Ken knew that life was about
using the hand that was dealt to him. He had to make the most of his hand as one does in
poker in order to succeedt. Ken made the most of his hand and lived life to the fullest
that he knew.
I often find myself taking this approach in life; and he provided
me with a role model of no matter what you are or who you are, make the most of what you
have and go for it in life. Don't wish to be someone else or come up with excuses in life.
Just do it within in your abilities of yourself. Ken knew himself and liked himself and
would have life no other way; and that is why he argued with the teacher that if he could
be anyone else in the world, he still would be himself, Kenneth N. Patrette.
I would like to dedicate this portion of my website to Kenny and
what he meant to me, to keep his spirit alive through memories via pictures, sounds and
accounts through others who knew him.
Thank you,
John J. Curran
Here's some Ken sound clips. I will include more content and pictures when I get a
chance.
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Hear Ken's answering machine whom I will
call, Luigi, because he looks like him!!! This is a direct link to a real audio sound
clip. |
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Hear Luigi's message he left for one of his employers
to come to work on 7/6/1998. Another direct link to a real audio clip. |

Ken and Monsignor Sandheinrich.
Monsignor Sandheinrich and Ken ran the parish of
the Old Cathedral, The Basilica of St. Louis, The King, downtown St. Louis, MO. But
according to the pastor, Monsignor, Ken was the real pastor who got things organized and
done when the church needed it. From funerals to weddings to keeping the parking lot and
church clean, Ken was there to make sure everything was ready to go.

The Infant of Prague as it stands at the Old Cathedral, St. Louis, MO.
Ken Patrette had a strong devotion to the Infant
of Prague, Baby Jesus. There is a statue of Jesus at the Old Cathedral that Ken made sure
was in perfect condition with the right color clothing on for the appropriate time of the
Catholic Church year. Obviously, the photo at the top of this page is not a real rendition
of the Infant with the Santa hat on it. But nevertheless, Ken's devotion to the Infant was
evident through his two trips over to Prague in Europe, to visit the original Infant of
Prague.
Ken was also an avid St. Louis Cardinals baseball fan
who owned season tickets for a few decades. Ken also was a jazz band player and fan. In
fact, he had his favorite Band, Dixie Land Band, play at his burial, to celebrate New
Orleans style. There was also a traditional fancy umbrella dance and champagne drinking.
After all was said and done, before his burial, all present were instructed by Ken's
wishes to break the champagne glass against his casket. And so it was a happy way to say
good bye to our good friend/family member, Ken Patrette. I will post some of these
pictures in the future as well if you don't believe this.
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Anthony's Thoughts on Ken
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Subject: Ken: The man, the myth, the legend.
Date: Mon, 15 Nov 1999 12:46:45 CST
From: "Anthony Kuenzel" <tones100@hotmail.com>
To: ivegotthepower
"Hey bud!" Those words began my work days with Ken always. They still ring
in my ears. Ken is no longer with us but I still feel his lingering presence
at times. When I saw Ken's beloved B.B. King at the Fox, I could picture Ken
there, taking in the soulfulness of B.B.'s "The Thrill is Gone." Every
time
I walk in to the conference room I can see him sitting there, talking to me
about collecting the Cathedral money, or about jazz music, or about OC
Parking Lot stories. Every time I walk in to Hodak's restaurant and sit down
and have myself some chicken, I still can see him sitting across from me,
telling me about life at the Globe, life in jazz, or just life in general.
His eyes would light up more than people my age. I'm almost nineteen and I
saw more fire in the eyes of Ken than I've ever seen in any gen-X burnout or
millenium child. But that's because Ken worked his way to the top the hard
way, and he truly cared about people, and he did good things, and simply
enjoyed living. His stories were never larger than life, because he lived
life large, and he wanted everyone else to do the same. He was always
enthusiastic about stories you had to tell him, and about adventures that
you had. He wanted everyone to live the experience like he did. He lived
hard, and he always had told me he didn't regret a thing he had done in all
the years he lived. No fear, no regrets, all fire. That was Ken, the scrappy
little Italian Stallion that stood taller than everyone else.
Anthony
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